Friday, November 4, 2011

What is He Thinking?? - review/giveaway.

About the Book:
In WHAT IS HE THINKING??, Rebecca interviews a range of men from high-profile types to the guys next door, men that every woman can relate to. Although the interviews focus on single guys ages 20-35, Rebecca also includes words of wisdom from older mentors she respects who have been successfully married for years, people like her dad, life coach, and pastor.

The men share their thoughts on topics like how women can respect themselves and the men in their lives, modesty, purity, taking it slow, friendship, letting guys lead, and more. This book gives them the floor to say what they would really like women to know.

The men respond candidly to questions such as:

What is the most attractive quality to you in a woman?

Is modesty truly attractive?

Is neediness a turn-off?

What do you find beautiful?

How can we be dependent on God for our identity, not on you?

How can we help you with boundaries physically?

Rebecca also discusses her own dating life, speaking openly about the single life, her struggle with loneliness, and her hope for the future. She challenges women to see the men in their lives as brothers in Christ and to trust God with their dating lives.

About Rebecca:
Australian born Rebecca St. James is a Grammy Award winner and a multiple Dove Award recipient, with international success that has driven her record sales into the millions. In January 2008, she was named Favorite Female Artist in Contemporary Christian Music by readers of CCM Magazine for the seventh consecutive year. Rebecca also won Best Female Artist of 2007 from fifth consecutive year to be given this honor. She's been involved in several film productions and voiced the character of Hope the Angel in VeggieTales' bestselling DVD production The Easter Carol.

My Thoughts:
Yup, i admit, i wanted to review this book for myself. With a failed marriage under my belt, it's obvious that i really don't know what he is thinking, and i sure don't want to screw up the relationship i have now.
And while the interviews were focused on 20-35 yr olds, I do think that it's meant for late teens to mid-20's, where the height of dating/sexual curiousity/figuring things out comes in. I love that it's a highly interesting, 'light' read, and will definitely be saving it for my daughters.

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  1. I have been married almost 6 years to a man I am madly in love with. BUT I do not understand him or what he is thinking and it causes so many issues sometimes! It is so important to me that we stay married and I try to do whatever I can to make it last through the good and bad! Any help I can get is great!

  2. Sounds like a really good book! I have absolutely no idea what my husband is thinking most of the time. Ha!

  3. It sounds great and im interested to get inside a mans head lol :)

  4. Sounds very interesting... I gotta be honest though.. I believe men dont think as much as we give them credit for. But I would love to see what she has to say.

  5. I would love to read this book and get a little more insight and possibly pass the book on to my sisters. They need it more than me! lol

    Shannon F.